An AI Grandma who gives you real relationship clarity.
Ask Grandma documents the wisdom of older women before it is lost forever and uses it to train an AI that gives younger women real relationship clarity. You pick a Grandma persona, each one trained on a different cultural voice, and ask her anything about your love life. She listens. She remembers. She tells you the truth even when it is hard to hear.
And when you need more than AI, you can talk to a real life Grandma. Real women. Trained counselors and life coaches who speak with the warmth, wisdom, and honesty of a grandmother who has seen it all. Book a one on one session directly through the app from $35.
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Ask her anything
Why is he acting like this? Should I text back? Is this a red flag? She answers honestly every time.
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Analyse the texts
Paste what he sent. She reads between every line and tells you exactly what it means.
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Compare two people
Can't choose? Lay both out for her. She will help you see which one is actually right for you.
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Know your patterns
She remembers what you've told her. Over time she helps you see the patterns keeping you stuck.
Five voices. One truth.
Choose the Grandma who speaks to your soul.
Every Grandma is culturally distinct. Same wisdom. Same warmth. Different voice.
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Grandma Adaeze
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Abuela Rosa
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Grandma Mae
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Grandma Lin
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Grandma Margaret
Real Life Grandma
Sometimes you need a real life Grandma on the other end.
The AI is always there. But when you need to hear a real voice — someone who has lived it, raised children, survived heartbreak, and come out wiser — we have that too.
Our Real Grandma coaches are trained counselors and life coaches who talk like the wise older woman you actually need. Not clinical. Not corporate. Just real.
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Real women. Real sessions.
Book a 1-on-1 video or voice session with a real life Grandma coach. 30 minutes from $35.
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Trained. Vetted. Wise.
Every Real Grandma coach is carefully selected. Decades of life experience. Trained in relationship guidance.
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Book anytime. Cancel anytime.
Sessions at $35, $75, or bundle two for $120. No subscription. No pressure. Just wisdom on your schedule.
"Sometimes what you need is not an answer. What you need is someone who has been where you are, sitting with you while you find your own answer."
The Real Grandma promise
The full picture
AI wisdom every day. Real Grandma when it matters most.
Start with the AI — she is available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, no waiting. When you hit a moment that calls for a real human voice, your Real Grandma coach is one booking away.
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AI Grandma
24/7. Instant. Free to start.
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Real Grandma
Live sessions. From $35.
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She doesn't tell you what you want to hear. She tells you what you need to hear. That's what makes her different from every other app.
Ask Grandma AI — The promise we make to every user
How it works
Three steps. Real clarity.
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Tell her about yourself
She asks a few quick questions so she can give you advice that actually fits your situation.
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Pick your Grandma
Choose the voice that feels like home. She will be yours for every conversation.
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Ask her anything
No question is too messy or too complicated. She has seen it all before.
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You have lived through heartbreak, raised children, survived loss, and come out wiser. That wisdom should not die with you.
Join the Real Grandma Network. We document your knowledge, train our AI with it, and connect you with younger women who need exactly what you have earned. You set your schedule. You keep 85% of every session.
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Earn from your experience
Keep 85% of every session you run. Sessions start at $35.
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Leave something behind
Your knowledge is documented and used to train our AI. Your wisdom outlives you.
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Work on your terms
Set your own schedule. Take sessions from anywhere. No minimum commitment.
Use your real grandmother's name and she will answer to it everywhere in the app.
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Pick the Grandma who feels right. You can change her anytime from
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loved. Even after she is gone, you can still come here to hear from her.
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What is Ask Grandma? ›
Ask Grandma is an AI-powered relationship clarity platform. She gives you honest, warm,
culturally grounded advice about love, dating, and life decisions. She is not a therapy replacement — she
is the wise older woman in your corner who tells you the truth.
Is my conversation private? ›
Yes. Your conversations are stored securely and are only accessible to you. We do not
sell your data or share your conversations with third parties. Ever.
How do I choose my Grandma? ›
Go to Profile and scroll to Choose Your Grandma. Pick from five culturally distinct
personas — African, White, Latina, African American, and Asian — or create your own by describing your
real grandmother. You can change her anytime.
What does the free plan include? ›
Free users get 5 chats per day with Grandma. Upgrading to Plus unlocks unlimited chat,
chat analysis, and suitor comparison. Premium adds the Dating CV builder, Breakup Navigator, custom
persona, and Real Grandma sessions.
How does the referral programme work? ›
Share your personal referral link from your Profile page. When a friend signs up using
your link, you both get 7 days of Grandma Plus free. No limits on how many friends you can refer.
What is Real Grandma? ›
Real Grandma connects you with trained human counselors and life coaches who talk like a
wise older woman — warm, direct, and experienced. Sessions start from $35. Book through the app.
How do I cancel my subscription? ›
Email us at [email protected] and we will cancel
within 24 hours. You will keep access until the end of your billing period.
I have an issue not listed here ›
Email us directly at [email protected]. We read every
message and respond within 24 hours.
Terms and Privacy
Last updated: March 2026
1. What Ask Grandma is
Ask Grandma is an
AI-powered relationship advice platform. It is not a licensed therapy service, a medical service, or a
crisis intervention service. If you are in crisis please contact a licensed professional or emergency
services.
2. Your data
We store your
conversations, profile, and usage data securely via Supabase. We do not sell your personal data to third
parties. We do not use your conversations to train AI models without explicit consent. You can request
deletion of your data at any time by emailing [email protected].
3. Subscriptions and
payments
Subscriptions are billed
monthly. You can cancel at any time by emailing [email protected]. Refunds are handled
on a case-by-case basis. Payments are processed securely by Stripe. We never see or store your card details.
4. Age requirement
You must be 18 or older
to use Ask Grandma. By creating an account you confirm you meet this requirement.
5. Acceptable use
Ask Grandma is for
personal relationship guidance only. Do not attempt to extract harmful content, misuse the AI, or use the
platform for commercial purposes without permission. Accounts that violate these terms will be closed.
6. Contact
For all questions,
support, data requests, or cancellations: [email protected]